Archive for September, 2018

Last-minute Wedding Guide

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Type of Ceremony | Spread the news | Dress to impress | Suppliers

So, your other half has popped the question! Firstly, congratulations from us all at The Manor. Secondly, what can we do to help?

For some, you have been awaiting, imagining and planning your wedding since you were little. For others, you have no idea where to start or what you want.

If you’re the planning sort and want to explore every possible detail, then setting a date for 1- or 2-years’ time might be for you. If you just want to get down that aisle and can’t wait to say ‘I do’, let us help you plan the ultimate last-minute wedding.

Taking into consideration time-restraints for a legal wedding, the ideal time frame you will be looking at is 8 weeks before your big day.

You will need this time to make sure you have a registrar booked. This needs to be done before anything else is booked, as Registrars can be limited, especially in the popular wedding months.

The other time restrictive task you will need to keep in mind is your final planning meeting 4 weeks before your big day. This is the time when you confirm final details with your wedding planner, from your final numbers to suppliers being used.

Why Wait? Practical reasons for booking a last-minute wedding

Wedding accessories

There are many practical reasons why people choose to not wait for your special date.

One of the most popular reasons being the pending addition to your soon-to-be family.

For some, tradition is very important, so you may want to get married before giving birth or the adoption process is finalised. The good news is you usually get at least 8 months’ notice before their arrival. For the ladies, fitting in your dress may be of importance, so an 8-week wedding would be ideal.

Perfect for civil servants

Armed forces wedding at Manor By The Lake

Civil servants such as teachers, armed forces and even those in the NHS are really restricted when it comes to holidays and time off. A last-minute wedding could be for you…

If you book your date when you know for sure that you will be off school or in the country, then this can all be planned before usual work duties resume.

You also have that holiday time to help plan and be involved, rather than only hearing the odd snippet of your special day during the planning process.

Picking the perfect time for your honeymoon

Honeymoon destinations

In the past few years, the wedding world has seen a shift in the importance of the honeymoon. Some are opting to spend less on the wedding day itself and more on their once-in-a-lifetime trip, whilst others ask for travel vouchers rather than wedding gifts.

If there is a specific location you are looking at for your honeymoon, the time of year you go can be of the essence, especially if good weather is on your ‘must-have’ list.

The most popular destinations for honeymoons include the likes of the Maldives, Thailand, Bali and Bora Bora, all absolutely stunning locations; but with all that beauty comes monsoon seasons.

If your chosen destination is in season now, you may not want to wait a whole year before going away with your new spouse.

In the same breath, maybe it’s not the honeymoon weather you are excited by; maybe it’s the beautiful UK seasons that you love.

Wedding seasons to adore

Manor By The Lake in different seasons

It could be the start of autumn, you’re looking around and falling deeper and deeper for the turning leaves and warm colours. It might be spring going into summer and there’s nothing you want more than a glass of fizz in the gardens with your friends and family with warmth radiating on your face.

You don’t have to wait a year for that season to come around again; get booking and embrace the beauty of your favourite season with a last-minute wedding.

The most prevalent reason for our guests deciding to book a last-minute wedding is cost. Like any industry, with a last-minute decision comes fabulous savings.

Not just with ourselves at Manor By The Lake, but if there is availability for bands, entertainment, photographers and other suppliers alike at this point in the year, they may also have some deals on offer.

Maybe there isn’t a reason, maybe there isn’t any practicality in your decision, maybe one day you just look at your other half and decide you no longer want to wait to become their husband or wife.

This is the time when a last-minute wedding can be so exciting and a pure whirlwind of emotion. Book today, make quick decisions and lose all the drama that comes with intricate planning and over-thinking.

We will help you with our last-minute wedding guide…

Picking the perfect last-minute wedding venue

Manor By The Lake Outside photo

Credit Dearest Love Photography

Your last-minute wedding can be made incredibly easy by purely choosing the right venue. It’s all down to the facilities available and services they provide. Picking the right venue can save you so much time, planning and admin work, helping keep things running smoothly.

Wedding Specialists

If we were to offer one main tip, when picking your last-minute venue, it would be to choose somewhere that specialises in weddings and events. These venues come with some facilities already in place from tables to cutlery and functioning bar.

Couple getting married Manor By The Lake

Credit Dearest Love Photography

Everything from their garden layouts to their internal décor will be dedicated to creating the perfect wedding environment, whether it’s a classic manor house setting, or a more modern, eclectic style.

One wedding, One Venue

A venue where you can get married and hold the reception would also be amazing. This takes away the worry of hiring wedding cars and trying to find a church or second venue last minute. Having just one venue all day will also save you heaps of money.

One venue will also save you buying two lots of décor, all your focus can be on making one venue stunning.

First Dance at Manor By The Lake

Credit Dearest Love Photography

Can you stay over?

When booking a tour around your final shortlist of venues its always worth asking if you can stay the night before and the night after. This saves so much time in the morning and allows your day to be that much calmer.

You can enjoy the luxury of arriving the night before and waking up in your chosen venue. Just imagine being able to get ready in a leisurely fashion, eating a delicious breakfast and when it’s time, just strolling across to your soon to be Husband/Wife.

The support of a wedding team

Another great tip would be to choose a venue that comes with a fully functioning wedding planning team. These wonderful people are the pros and they will talk you through every step, helping keep your head clear.

They will have a system in place which will help you plan to every little detail, ensuring that nothing is missed. They are experienced, creative and have enjoyed many weddings, so they know what needs to be done.

The great thing about having a wedding planning team is that they also know the latest wedding trends, so if you need to discuss ideas or in need of inspiration, they will be on hand.

If you find a wedding venue, with a team, also ask about their wedding collections and packages. All the basics will be covered within these collections from table linen to arrival drinks, giving you a great base to start adding your own personal touches.

Delicious food and drinks collections available

Food has become a huge part of weddings. Long gone are the days of basic dining and we have welcomed a whole new realm of exciting canapes, delicious food carts and even live cooking.

Food at Manor By The Lake

This style of dining may seem a little overwhelming if you are trying to plan things last minute, but if you chose a venue with internal caterers, it’s as simple as making an order and leaving the pros to it.

Having a venue with food and drink collections in place will be a huge help.  Giving you some food’spiration and covering all the basics when it comes to feeding and watering your guests. These collections generally include a welcome drink, wedding breakfast, a drink for toasts, evening food and a glass of wine for each guest. However, each venue varies.

Good connections with local suppliers

Last but not least, find a venue who has good connections with local suppliers. They can recommend people who they have worked with in the past, so they know the venue. This will also help with booking, as the venue can give you all the contact details and names that you need from photographers and entertainment to Love Letters and florists.

Flowers at Manor By The Lake

Credit Dearest Love Photography

When it comes to finding your perfect venue, choose a place that makes you fall in love all over again. Somewhere that makes your heart soar and makes you feel at home. If it suits your style, your budget and your dreams then it is the venue for you.

Seal the deal with the perfect ceremony

The beauty with modern day weddings is that there are so many ways that you can get married.  Whether you’re religious, spiritual or just want to be legally joined to your loved one.

In the UK, 28 days is the shortest time frame for you to be legally wed. If you wanted to do it sooner than that, VEGAS BABY!

Before booking your last-minute wedding, we would suggest checking the availability of your registrar or church. Without either of these, a legal wedding is not possible.

What is a civil wedding?

Civil ceremony at Manor By The Lake

A civil marriage is a ceremony with no religious affiliation. It is performed by a government or civil official and meets all the requirements needed for a legal wedding.

Civil ceremonies take place at a registered venue of your choice. This can be in a beautiful manor house, a rustic barn or even under a beautiful gazebo in your favourite gardens.

It’s important to check with the venue that the area you want to have your ceremony in or under is registered before booking.

If you’re not religious, then a civil ceremony is for you. They don’t include any hymns, religious readings or prayers. However, readings or songs of other styles can be included to make it beautifully personal.

To have a civil wedding, you will need to book a registrar. Each county is different, but during the busy wedding season, their availability can be quite limited. So, we would always advise booking them in at least 4 – 6 weeks in advance.

Can I book a church last minute?

Church wedding

Each parish is different, and a last-minute church wedding can be tricky, but can also be done.

To enjoy a religious ceremony in your local church you much attend the Sunday service for three consecutive weeks to have your banns read. This signifies that you wish to get married. It is possible to skip this process; however, you will need to apply for a common licence.

Each church differs; however, they generally request that you regularly attend the services. If you only visit now and again, or not at all the Vicar may request you join a wedding preparation class.

Churches can be booked months in advance, so it is worth talking to your local vicar ASAP to see if there is any availability during the time that you wish to get married if this is the style of wedding that you are looking for.

What is a celebrant wedding?

Celebrant wedding

A celebrant wedding is a non-official ceremony held by an officiant. They are relaxed, informal and can be held anywhere.

There are no restrictions when it comes to a celebrant wedding, meaning it can be 100% in your own style. This is perfect for those who differ in beliefs or want to get married in a specific place.

Your service can be as long, or as short as you like depending on the ceremony content you decide on.

To make your wedding official you will need to sign the register at your local registry office after (or before) the ceremony takes place. To do this, you will need to book the signing room, take along two witnesses and sign the documents.

The type of ceremony needs to reflect on your own beliefs and style. If you want to celebrate your faith as well as your marriage, don’t settle for anything less than a church ceremony. If you want your favourite songs playing, along with personal readings and poems, maybe a civil or celebrant marriage is more you.

Celebrate your love in your own special way and your personality will shine through beautifully.

Spread the news

Last-minute weddings come with time restraints. Your numbers and food choices need to be back in time for your final planning meeting so you need to get the good news of your pending nuptials out there ASAP.

There are many ways to make inviting your loved ones easier and quicker, which doesn’t involve hours of design, glueing and address label making (although that is always fun).

Why not use social media invitations

Manor By The Lake Whatsapp message

If you want to go the whole hog of save the dates, invitations and planning invites, then maybe start with a very 2018 WhatsApp group or Facebook event. This gets the date out there, so people can book in their diary.

Each of these electronic services offers read receipts when your invitee has received the message and they can quickly respond with a yes, no, or maybe with the tap of a finger.

For your actual invites, a more formal method might be required. There are many ways that you can create beautiful e-cards that give your guests all the information you would usually get in a normal invite.

Or an e-card…

Your e-card can then link to a wedding website. Within this website, you can include additional information including dietary requirements, local hotel information and menu choices.

Wedding websites can also offer an insight into your wedding design, helping you incorporate your wedding colours, design attributes and even pictures of you as a couple to really set the scene.

The fantastic thing with doing everything online is that it also saves printing costs and is more environmentally friendly. Perfect for those who hate paper waste and want to do their little bit to make our world a better place.

You can still keep to traditional invites!

Traditional Invitations

By Not on the High Street

If you want to keep with the traditional invite styles, we would suggest going high street or a simple print design.

Order invitations which are already designed and that you just need to add names and addresses. There are some stunning designs out there to enjoy, including a variety of different colours. It’s hard to not find styles that match your wedding design.

A simple one-page design can also be put together and printed in a very short space of time. Information needed on your design includes a space for names, wedding date, wedding time, the address for the ceremony and reception, as well as RSVP instructions.

If you use a couple of lovely fonts and some good quality paper, then this is easy to print, envelope and sent to your nearest and dearest.

Dress to impress…

With many wedding boutiques asking for 9-12 months to secure the dress of your dreams, finding the perfect wedding dress at short notice may be your biggest area of concern. However, we’ve done our research and have rounded up several fabulous options that are far more readily available for a last-minute wedding.

Hit the High Street – High Street Wedding Dresses

There is a growing trend for High Street stores offering ready-to-wear wedding attire for brides, grooms, and their attendants. Not only are these options easy to source; they are normally much more cost effective than a designer gown from a specialist boutique and you don’t need an appointment to try them on!

Phase Eight has clearly taken inspiration from some of the most popular wedding dress designers with their intricate beading, delicate lace, and romantic designs. With prices starting at just £275, they’re practically a steal!

Phase Eight wedding dresses

As seen on Phase Eight

As one of the first stores to offer an affordable bridal range, Monsoon offers stunning dresses from £229 in a wide range of styles, so whether you want a short and flirty number, or something more classical, this range is worth a look! They’re also a great place to go for bridesmaid and page boy outfits and fabulous accessories.

We think Debenhams is the ultimate one stop shop for wedding parties everywhere. Grooms, ushers and page boys will find everything they need to hire or buy from suits and waistcoats to cummerbunds and cufflinks.

There are gorgeous ranges for bridesmaids and flower girls as well as designer ranges for brides from Ben de Lisi and Savannah Miller. With underwear, shoes and wedding favours on offer too, you can kit out your entire event in one go!

Moss Bros wedding suit

As seen on Moss Bros

If the groom is keen to sort himself, then pack him and the boys off to Moss where they’ll find a huge range of options for both contemporary and traditional looks. As well as being able to hire everything; including shoes; there’s also the option to go down the tailoring route. So, if he’s in need of a new suit, this could be the perfect time to treat himself with something made to measure.

If you want to completely put your feet up and shop online, retailers such as ASOS, Boohoo and Missguided all have their own range of wedding dresses, including bridesmaid dresses and wedding accessories.

ASOS wedding dresses

As seen on ASOS

You may not be able to try before you buy, but you can shop and try on your dress in the comfort of your own home and send back if it’s not what you are looking for.

Dying for Designers – Designer Wedding Dresses

If your heart is set on a designer dress then there are still options available at short notice. Register your interest with all your favourite boutiques and brands so that you’ll be the first to be notified of any trunk or sample sales. You may just get lucky with an event in the lead up to your big day where you can snare your perfect outfit at a significant discount.

Another option is searching the buoyant second-hand market for your dream dress. With many popular designers such as Jenny Packham and Vera Wang charging thousands for their creations, there’s a healthy market for resale from brides hoping to claw back some of their very hefty investment.

We’ve seen £4,000 dresses sell for just over a quarter of their original price, so it’s definitely worth having a look at sites such as Still White and Pre-Loved for any bargains.

Make sure the sellers have included lots of photos and ideally, travel to see the dress and try it on in person rather than buying unseen. Dresses that have been professionally dry cleaned and have all their original tags and receipts, as well as spare buttons and beading, are a good buy.

If you’re limited by time rather than budget and you’ve set your heart on a very particular dress that you’ve seen in a boutique, then talk to them about the option of a priority order to secure your dream dress in the time you have available. Some designers can offer a speedy service, but may ask you to pay for the privilege.

Finding Last-minute suppliers

Many couples mistakenly think that if you book your suppliers last-minute, then you will only have a small selection available to you. This is not always the case for mid-week weddings.

Suppliers at the weekends can be booked months/years in advance, however during the week you will find availability and prices quite good. Giving you all the choice at a fraction of the price.

Talk to the people in the know

When booking your suppliers, it is worth talking to your wedding planner or venue. They may have a list of suppliers who they recommend, saving you the time of searching through all the musicians, photographers and cake decorators in the UK.

One of the joys of booking someone that the venue knows well also means the supplier will know the venue as well.

They know how to get there and where to set up. It also means that suppliers such as photographers and florists will know the best places to decorate and where to take photos without having to book in a visit before the wedding

High street last-minute wedding shopping

If you’re struggling for availability or budget when it comes to your flowers, head to the high street.

Florist suppliers for Last minute wedding

Good quality supermarkets and high street stalls can have a stunning selection of flowers available.

They might not that the variety of a florist, but the ease of buying and cost will reward you greatly.

You can either go for a pre-packaged collection of flowers or grab various bouquets and mix them up.

Local markets are also a fantastic place to look for affordable flowers, they may also have a wider selection that you might not find in the shops, depending on the quality of the market.

The high street is also branching out when it comes to wedding and party food. The likes of Marks and Spencer’s, John Lewis and Waitrose all offer their own range of celebration deliciousness.

They have everything from traditional wedding cakes to pork pie cake’s, canapes to deserts.

Talk to the students

Wedding musicians

Within your local university/college there are many talented young musicians, photographers, beauty therapists and entertainers.

Why not put an advert out with the university offering one of them a chance to be a supplier at your wedding?

Benefits behind hiring a student or someone fresh into the business is that they will know the latest trends in their field, they will be cheaper, and they could offer something very different to what others have done in the past.

Student suppliers also will have more availability than professionals, as it will be a side project to their studies.

Coming soon… Last-Minute Wedding Gifts

Pretty Pumpkins or Gorgeous Ghouls | Beautiful Halloween Wedding Styles

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As children, there were always the two different types of trick or treater. The cute cat with delicate whiskers and painted on nose or the blood covered, crazy haired zombie.

It’s the same with weddings. Each year we look forward to the ultimate Halloween themed wedding, whether it’s a day adorned with pretty pumpkins and autumnal colours or a full-on ghoulish affair.

There are so many ways to create a Halloween theme wedding from your choice of stationery to your wedding decor. Let us help you decide what type of Halloween wedding would suit you with these fabulous Halloween wedding ideas.

Day of the Dead Wedding Theme

Day of the Dead style wedding

Since the release of Coco, Day of the Dead has increased in popularity. It’s the perfect theme to introduce intricate detailing, beautiful patterns and skull inspired accessories.

Day of the Dead, although creepy and spooky, it is also striking and colourful. It’s the perfect way to have all the traits of a Halloween style wedding with Mexican flavour.

Think delicious Mexican foods, lace table cloths, delicately designed invitations and feisty coloured bridesmaid dresses.

Pretty Pumpkin Wedding Accessories

Pumpkin Style Weddings

Floral Pumpkin Display: Kristina Curtis

Mr & Mrs Pumpkins: Kelly Lane Photography

Aisle Pumpkin Décor: Photo by Meaghan Elliot Photography

Gold Pumpkins : JESSICA ARDEN PHOTOGRAPHY

This trend is one for the autumnal loving couple. Pumpkins come in all shapes and sizes, lending themselves perfectly for wedding accessories.

They can be used instead of floral decor, as a vase for flowers, as center pieces, welcome signs and even as name places. They can be carved, painted or left natural to create a plethora of effects.

Align your aisle, welcome your guests and get creative with a simple pumpkin. You could also include it as part of your wedding menu for an autumnal finish.

Gorgeous Gothic Colours

Gothic Halloween weddings

Invitations – Etsy

Autumnal Flowers & Horse and Carriage credit – Noel Hibbert Cotswold Pictures

As autumn comes in colours start getting richer, warmer and darker. Giving us the ultimate opportunity to bring out our gothic side.

Gothic style weddings are filled with opulent colours, dramatic décor and incredible textures. You can be as bold as you like, incorporating the likes of jewels, lace and silks.

The style and architecture of The Manor offers itself perfectly for a gothic wedding, offering the perfect backdrop for your wedding photos. Go all out with your wedding attire, or keep it simple with hints of beautiful darkness.

Classic Halloween Wedding Style

Classic Halloween Weddings

Photography credit – Noel Hibbert Cotswold Pictures

When it comes to Halloween you can’t beat the classic use of cauldrons, witches’ hats and cobwebs. There is something so fun and enjoyable about a wedding that homes all of these elements.

We had a fabulous wedding with a lovely couple called Hayley and Claire back in October 2017 who had the most amazing Halloween themed wedding. Everything from their shoes to their transport oozed classic Halloween style. There was even a snowy white owl involved!

They had cute cauldrons as name settings, pumpkins as décor, stunning autumnal floral arrangements and crazy Halloween patterns on their shoes, cake and confetti. A perfect day to celebrate their love for each and this fabulously ghoulish holiday.

To hold your own Halloween style wedding at Manor By The Lake, call our team on 01242 245 071 or email weddings@manorbythelake.co.uk.

Film Themed Weddings You will Love

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Every couples wedding is different, especially when it comes to their wedding style. Some wedding themes are influenced by colour, others by an era, and more recently films.

Film themed weddings are increasing in popularity and why not! Many couples fall in love because of certain movies, whether it’s from what they watched on their first date, their shared love of a genre or the general romance associated with a certain flic.

Why not design your wedding day on one of these fairy tales for your happy ever after…?

Disney Themed Weddings

Disney Wedding Themed

Disney films are filled with the ultimate couple goals, romantic quotes and beautiful scenes. Everyone has a favourite moment, a favourite character and has grown up falling in deeper love with its nostalgic feel.

The great thing about Disney is that there is something for everyone, from the comedy and quick wit of Hercules to the classic romance of the Disney princesses.

Invite the likes of Belle, Cinderella, Mickey or Minnie to your wedding day, but beware their outfits may outdo yours.

Add a bit of Harry Potter Magic

Harry Potter Always Cake

Quotes such as ‘After all the time? Always’ and “You are protected, in short, by your ability to love” are just 2 of the reasons why Harry Potter is one of the best loved collections of all times.

The emotional connection and beautiful words included in the books and on screen has captured the heart and soul of many generations. Why wouldn’t you want the same magic, love and feel of the films included in your wedding day?

Let Star Wars take your Wedding to a Different Dimension

Star Wars Storm Troopers

Star Wars has been in our lives for many years, taking our imagination to a whole new world… literally. Many relationships have been built up and opinions divided by peoples love of the franchise.

Adding the look and feel of the Star Wars brand will give your wedding day an almost futuristic feel.

Imagine hiding R2D2 into your wedding cake, having a light saber archway to walk through or by having a customized runner quoting the start of your favourite Star Wars film?

Such a cool way to start your married life!

Make everything awesome with a Lego Movie Wedding

Lego style wedding Cake

Lego is loved by all kids big and small. It is colourful, fun and now a big hit on screen as well as in our children’s toy box.

One of our favourite wedding cakes this year must be this Lego cake. At first glance it’s a normal wedding cake, but as you turn the three-tier beauty around, you are greeted with the intricate detail of mini Lego bricks and much-loved Lego characters.

This theme can be incorporated in many areas of your wedding day, from centre pieces to entertainment for the children.

It really does prove, that your wedding day doesn’t have to be serious.

Style it out the Great Gatsby Way

1920s Wedding Stationery

Stationery by Not on the High Street

Go back to a time of elegance, sparkle and cigars, and be inspired by the Great Gatsby. Since Leo raised his fizz filled champagne saucer, couples love for the 1920s has grown.

Weddings of this style are filled with opulence, accents of gold and plenty of champagne. They are the perfect opportunity to incorporate Jazz, Blues and Broadway style entertainment giving guests the ultimate environment to have a dance.

Take the geometric patterns and beautiful fonts and create a world of sophistication and class, ready for you to walk down that all important aisle.

If you want to talk through your film themed wedding with our weddings team give them a call on 01242 245 071 or email weddings@manorbythelake.co.uk.